When we start discussing self-bondage, we will focus on a person’s solo behavior. Although we know that in the context of the relationship between master and servant, the master can also let the slave perform self-bondage to generate control. In order to briefly describe the characteristics of self-bondage behavior, we only discuss personal behavior here.
Fortunately, we will not discuss the origin of certain behaviors or phenomena. Reference to a large amount of literature will make us dull. So, let’s start with the appearance. It is worth noting that our discussion materials are all from the exchanges of friends with common interests. They are real and wonderful.
I Motivation of I self-bondage
Obviously, the motives that drive people to perform certain behaviors are complex and compound. We are just trying to make a rough classification from a unique entry point. It is not complete, and it will not be unique.
1 Pious restraint
It is not an ascetic monk, although religious elements will become one of the causes of behavior in some areas. It sounds weird to gain peace in the process of self-restraint, but we can assume a purification scenario. It is like a ritual, but not for salvation, but for physical pleasure.
2 Personification
The difference between personality materialization and empty thinking is that the process of materialization is not important. The player in the materialized state is relaxed from the restraint of the stillness of the limbs. From the performance point of view, they mostly waited quietly, keeping themselves within the limits of the restraints.
3 controlled
The desire to be enslaved is common among the abused. In a game scene, being ordered to do something to get pleasure. Obedience to self-restraint can enhance the feeling of obedience. Because self-destruction and restriction are a strong contrast to free life, this behavior can especially show a strong contrast in the current era when free will thinking is more popular.
4 shame
Unlike public exposure, the shame of self-bondage comes more from the contrast of self-image. From the image of a well-dressed social person to the image of restrained, powerless, and weak. The contrast caused by self-social positioning brings a strong sense of shame. When the overall trend of thought abandons corruption and lust, the shame brought about by contrast can inspire grotesque excitement.
II self-bondage mode
Many props can achieve the goal, they can be of different materials and sizes. Obviously, the whole process of self-bondage contains two cores: the restraint process and the unbound process. Regardless of the way to reach the goal, we can roughly classify the process and method of unbinding.
1 Timing
The timer can be mechanical or electronic. The core lies in a certain time expectation. Prior to this, all behaviors were restricted. With the development of science and technology, the way to achieve timing has become easier and more convenient to obtain.
2 flexibility
It is relatively safe and uses a flexible restraint method. What self-bondage lovers experience is the sense of restricted behavior after being restrained. It can untie the shackles at any time according to its own will.
3 Struggle
More certain restraints, most of the time the restraints cannot be released without the help of additional tools. At this time, the process of unbinding is also one of the processes of enjoyment. It is often accompanied by some additional conditions, so that a lot of pleasure can be obtained in the process of unbinding.
4 assistance
The shackles that can’t be undone on his own, let the body lose control in a fixed way. It is easier to be used in the master and servant game. Because it needs the assistance of other people to complete the whole process, maybe we shouldn’t include it in self-bondage.
III Joints and connection points
Fully analyze the human body, from both horizontal and vertical directions. We can get some key information. In the process of self-bondage, most of the body parts that can be manipulated by one person are distributed in various joints in the lateral direction.
1 neck
The freedom of movement of the neck is not very high, so the neck is usually used as a fixed point to assist other body parts in fixing. Of course, in hardcore games, it is also a good choice to use a neck brace to limit it.
2 big arm
Having the greatest flexibility in body parts, or in other words, whether the self-bondage experience is satisfactory, depends largely on whether the arm can be firmly fixed. It’s a pity that the big arm is also the most difficult part in a solo game. There are currently some props that try to allow people to manipulate their arms to restrain them, but the effect is not very good. Perhaps this is a future research and development direction.
3 wrist
Usually the wrist will be the last step of restraint. Too many props can achieve the goal. However, it is worth discussing that the final fixed position of the wrist has a strong correlation with somatosensory. Fixing the wrist behind you can increase the excitement of the whole process, but also increase the difficulty.
4 waist
The waist is a part that is easily overlooked in self-bondage. It is the center point of the body, and it can be used as a core fixed point. The way to achieve it is also very simple, at least you only need a belt. When we use the waist as a fixed point, we can connect the hands and feet, which not only increases the degree of fixation, but also allows us to choose more fixation methods.
5 thighs and knees
This is a body part with a small range of motion, especially when the ankle has been fixed. There is no need for much discussion because they can be handled well. So you need to pay more attention to the comfort of restraint items, because the lower body is far away from the heart, they need more smooth blood flow.
6 ankle
In many cases, the ankle is the first part to be fixed. Easily overlooked is the vertical movement of the entire foot. If you use boots or other props to prevent the entire foot from moving freely, you may be able to get a better experience.
Vertical links occur more often when using other props outside of the body. Of course, the crotch is a special case, and its function is more of a kind of auxiliary to increase stimulation. The head will also not be discussed here, because hood is a good prop that is worthy of detailed analysis.
In the end, I want to propose a product idea, which may need to meet the following requirements.
- Soft bondage
- Operate alone
- safe
- Leave no trace
- Sufficient restrictions
This may be an idea I will try to make.
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